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a man is not a car....

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a man is not a car....
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most men you run into might be lemons... but.... you won't get anywhere attaching yourself to a man!

boyz not men...

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....are you praying for the end of time to hurry up & arrive?
 
what does that mean? Did you ever hear the song by Meatloaf, "Paradise by the Dashboard Light?"
 
Boy:

I remember every little thing
As if it happened only yesterday
Parking by the lake
And there was not another car in sight
And I never had a girl
Looking any better than you did
And all the kids at school
They were wishing they were me that night

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And were glowing like the metal on the edge of a
Knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Cmon! hold on tight!
Cmon! hold on tight!
Though its cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light

Girl:

Aint no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Aint no doubt about it
Baby got to go and shout it
Aint no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed

Boy:

Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely dressed

Baby doncha hear my heart
You got it drowning out the radio
Ive been waitin so long
For you to come along and have some fun

And I gotta let ya know
No youre never gonna regret it
So open up your eyes I got a big surprise
Itll feel all right
Well I wanna make your motor run

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And were glowing like the metal on the edge of a
Knife
Glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
Cmon! hold on tight!
Cmon! hold on tight!

Though its cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light
Oh its cold and lonely in the deep dark night
Paradise by the dashboard light

You got to do what you can
And let mother nature do the rest
Aint no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely --

Were gonna go all the way tonight
Were gonna go all the way tonights the night

Were gonna go all the way tonight
Were gonna go all the way tonights the night

Were gonna go all the way tonight
Were gonna go all the way tonights the night

Were gonna go all the way tonight
Were gonna go all the way tonights the night

Radio broadcast:

Ok here we go, we got a real pressure cooker going
Here, two down, nobody on, no score, bottom of the 9th, theres the wind-up, And there it is, a line shot up the middle, look at him go. this boy can really Fly!
 
he's rounding first & really turning it on now, he's not letting up at
All, he's gonna try for second; the ball is bobbled out in center & here
Comes the throw & what a throw!
 
he's gonna slide in head first, here he Comes, he's out! no, wait, safe
 
- safe at second base, this kid really makes
Things happen out there.
 
batter steps up to the plate heres the pitch - he's
Going, and what a jump he's got, he's trying for 3rd, here's the throw, its In the dirt - safe at 3rd!
 
holy cow, stolen base! he's taking a pretty big
Lead out there, almost daring him to try & pick him off. the pitcher glances

Over, winds up & it's bunted, bunted down the 3rd base line, the suicide Squeeze is on! here he comes, squeeze play, its gonna be close, here's the Throw, here's the play at the plate, holy cow, I think hes gonna make it!

Boy:
 
Ii... let me sleep on it

Girl:

Stop right there!
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further --!

Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your
Wife?
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your
Wife?
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me !!!?
Will you love me forever !!!?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
Ill give you an answer in the morning

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
Ill give you an answer in the morning

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
Ill give you an answer in the morning

Girl:

I gotta know right now!
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away and will you make me your
Wife?
I gotta know right now!
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?

Whats it gonna be boy?
Come on
I can wait all night
Whats it gonna be boy yes or no?
Whats it gonna be boy yes or no?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it
Baby, baby let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it
And Ill give you an answer in the morning
L

Girl:

I gotta know right now!!!
Do you love me?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it!!

Girl:

Will you love me forever?


Boy:

Baby baby let me sleep on it

Girl:

Do you need me?
Will you never leave me?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it

Girl:

Will you make me so happy for the rest of my life?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it Ill give you an answer in the morning!! morning!!!!
Ill tell you in the morning!!!!!

Girl:

Will you take me away, will you make me your wife?

Girl:
I gotta know right now
Before we go any further
Do you love me?
Will you love me forever?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it

Girl:

Will you love me forever?

Boy:

Let me sleep on it

Girl:

Will you love me forever?

Iii. praying for the end of time

Boy:

I couldnt take it any longer
Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me
Like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my God and on my mothers
Grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore that I would love you to the end of time!

So now Im praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I dont think that I can really survive
Ill never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I can do right now
Im praying for the end of time
Its all that I can do
Praying for the end of time, so I can end my time
With you!!!

Boy:

It was long ago and it was far away
And it was so much better than it is today

Girl:

It never felt so good
It never felt so right
And we were glowing like
A metal on the edge of a knife

and don't think a taxi is the answer either!

getting somewhere in life takes more than just transportation....

but it's not a man that you need to get you there. Just because he has a car or she had a car isn't the reason to continue seeing someone who just isn't the right one for you.
 
The reason those song lyrics are listed in the left column is just an example of people having sex for the wrong reasons. Sleeping with someone just because that someone has things you need isn't a compromise worth making.
 
If you rely on yourself to get what you need you will appreciate what you get that much more and you will take care of what you get, believe me. I spent many days and nights in the wrong relationship, being hurt by someone, because we both knew that if I broke it up then I would be hurting for a number of comfort items and my days and nights would be much harder for me to deal with.
 
It wasn't worth it. Listen to me on this one. Be true to yourself.

red light... green light.... did you ever play this game?

maybe you played, "Mother may I?"

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